[Kakashi.Archive]

Sometimes the hardest thing in the world is to make a friend. Keeping them as your friend takes a lot of work, so that you dont fight with them and dont lose them. But the Hardest thing in the world is to watch a friend day in your hands, not knowing what to do or what to think. It feels like part of your life is destroyed and lost forever.

I lost someone 4 years ago today. He died in my arms, and i still beat myself today thinking i could have done something more to help him.
This is the first time i have ever talked about it.

As a question, who here has lost someone in there lives? It can be a family member or your best friend.

[Wolferion]

O well.. Sad to hear =( . I lost 4 years ago my loved grandma and 1 year ago my one of the best friends of one illness....

[Darfin]

Sorry for you loss.
Itll be 3 years this November, I think
My best friend commited suicide by hanging himself in a tree.
When I hear the word suicide, or something like that, Ill always think of that night.

[Soulreaper]

sorry to hear that kak, ya man weve all lost somone either friend or family most of my family has either died from lung cancer stupid smokers or just cancer after that my family fell apart other side hated us -_-, and friend of mine died by a car wreck... so my family is screwed up most of them are dead som could be more dead right now and could care less

[Woodchip]

Ok kak, 1 you dont need to go sharing this out with the world. Just because i lost two ppl and i was really pissed off don't mean you gotta go tellin everyone to be happy and everything. Second, if this happens again, just leave it alone because I dont like people referring to death. I have had more than just my grandma die, and it was more than just a regular death because I caused it. I dont want you guys talking about this anymore. Just drop it. You dont get how i feel about this. If you guys wanna talk about it in PM thats fine, but if you think you can just mosey on over and start trying to cheer people up by talking and tellin your own life experiences, it dont work lke that.

[Soulreaper]

wow dude you are acting like we were arguing over somthing again i hope you arnt always like this.. rofl

[Woodchip]

Dude shut up, if i could tell you this whole story, you would understand. I dont want to tell you because this is a personal matter, and Kak should NOT be starting a friggin blog about something personal i told him

[Soulreaper]

and Kak should NOT be starting a friggin blog about something personal i told him

so this is about you? or am i missing wat u are saying..

[Woodchip]

yes it is about me. I said that in my first paragraph

[Soulreaper]

ahh sry lolz didnt read that to well rofl

[Woodchip]

dude, stop laughing, this isnt a funny matter, people DIED. Of course that is a BAD thing which isnt for laughing

[Soulreaper]

dude people die everyday the world keeps spinning and people laugh get over it

[Woodchip]

People dont laugh at death!

[Soulreaper]

this is a fun topic u kno that right complaning at each other makes my day all teh better lol

[Woodchip]

Dude, try having your grandmother dead, uncle gonna die in a year, bst friend has lukemia, n throw in some family problems and see what happens next? Laughter, prolly not

[Soulreaper]

dude u dont kno wat my life is lol u wouldnt of fathem wat has happned to me all my grandparents are gone aunt's and uncle's dead and my friend i barly have a family and the rest hates my lil family i got left so dont be crying to me u dont kno wat its like cause i do and personaly dont care

[Woodchip]

so if you do why are you laughing at death. if you know so much about the ''pain'' why are you laughing. Im sorry if im bein a dickwad but im pissed at kak for making this matter public

[Soulreaper]

cause i dont really get affected by it anymore after it has happned so much, its in the past just leave it where it is and nv dig it up

[Fluffy]

Woodchip, I can understand you being angry because of the possibility of it being a personal issue that another has deliberately raised.

If it's a misunderstanding between you and another, that is also understandable. But you've argued enough publicly. If you want to continue, you are welcome to, but not publicly.

If you feel that you have been violated and want some action taken refer it to a Council/Arbiter to help you resolve it.

My condolosences to the deceased, now please pay some respect to those who are still here.

[Soulreaper]

eh sry or lettin this get out of hand lolz... as usual i started it rofl

[Fluffy]

eh sry or lettin this get out of hand lolz... as usual i started it rofl

Don't worry about it, it's nobody's fault. Arguments happen from time to time. It's when arguments spiral out of control that problems arise.

[Darko]

It makes me wonder how you two can make an arguement out of a innocent remembrance post for someone who somebody loved.

Beyond me.

[Kakashi.Archive]

Wood this has nothing to do with you...omg this is about my friend that died 4 years ago that i still cant get over... thanks for the MAJOR disreaspect, next time think before you speak, this was about me and anyone that wanted to share about themselves. NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU!

[Tricky]

Dude, try having your grandmother dead, uncle gonna die in a year, bst friend has lukemia, n throw in some family problems and see what happens next? Laughter, prolly not

That's not such an uncommon situation in most people's lives these day. Furthermore, you have just about as much right to tell Soul how to deal with the death of others as he has laughing at those who have died. Some people have different ways of handling death, and you'll come to understand that eventually. Personally, I don't get as bottled up as others, but I do get sad and depressed. What I don't get is angry. Death is a natural cycle of life, it's just a matter of how soon and in what way it comes. There's no point in lingering over something you have almost no control over. Finally, if Kakashi was trying to make a post on behalf of you, it wasn't to insult you, it was to help you cope with the passing of friends/family/whatever. If you were annoyed about it, there were better ways to reply instead of yelling at him.

Now, assuming we're done bickering over those who have come and gone, I'd like to pay a tribute to my cousin. He died a few years back, and he's probably one of the greatest inspirations in my life. He grew up in an almost perpetual sickness. He survived a heart transplant, hip failures, and still managed to never let it get him down. If you had met him, you'd have never guessed what he had been through. He had a way of hiding all the weight he was carrying. Unfortunately, do to some procedural complications with his lung, and eventually coming down with leukemia, he couldn't hold out anymore and moved on to the next life. I just thought I'd post it in his honor, as he's a real testament to the living and dead, and to let him know how honored I am to be his cousin.

[chupacabra]

well i didn't want to make a post here but Woods disrespect made me to....
we all lost some due to any reason... but the only thing that matters during such times is support... im always happy for the ones who die...because they left this fuxxed up life... only ones who stay are left in pain...and wood ur sooo young u ain't got a clue about life...or death...I can't imagine how it is if a friend dies in ur hands...nor I think any words can describe that...thats why life is about enjoying every moment u get a chance too...some leave others come...but on the final judgement u must regret NOthing and only then u shall see the true meaning of freedom...live and let die...its only natural...Kak there is nothing u could have done,and u don't have to get over it ever, it only makes ur mind stronger, feel the truth and let it flow...