Hello everyone!
I was sitting today quite bored 8 hours in school and came with an idea
of writing an advice from my gained experience for younger friends, to which it could be useful. I would like to ask your opinions of it, please ^^ I am sorry for bad tenses, I am not an expert in English still, will take time
There it is :
Maybe you have heard this sentence before:"For a clever person, each day comes a new life."
Some people might think this sentence means quite nothing. Let me explain it to you. Back in the times of
the everyday pain, full of soul cries caused by this ‘pain’, as many others did , I also thought of all the
bad things of it and about the bad future of our lives. All these thoughts put your hopes down, crushing your
beliefs, heart and mind...This is a really usual beginning of the ‘depression’. Realising that these thoughts
lead nowhere else than death, I started seeking a cure in my whole gained knowledge. I reminded myself of that
sentence and surprisingly I finally understood its meaning:"Don't look behind you or at a possible bad future.
Think of a current hour in a current day." I have lost dear people, because they turn into bastards, Unrequited
Love, an enormous pain. Now I just smile when I think about it with calm happy face. I made stupid mistakes,
so what about it? Regret it whole life? It’s past and it isnt real "world's end" in your mind. What has happened
has happened. There is no way to change it, so why give it so many nerves and bother? It is of course good to
remember good times (which to keep at heart) and the experience gained from mistakes. You think you can't forget
about the bad and to stop regretting it? Well, if you think so, then you surely won’t succeed, because you will
theoretically just remind yourself of what happened. "Life itself is exactly what we think about it". The sentence
over all is pretty understandable. You wake up in the morning of a new day, and there will come new situations,
a new experience. Just like a new life, which we can change to be better instead of keeping the thoughts of how it
can be bad. Only real fools think "everything I’ve done is lost"... "Accepting current situations is the first
step to dealing with problems. Don’t think your current situation is the worst possible, it could be far worse
than you really think. To deal with the problem properly, just sit down, take a paper, write the problem on it
and describe it, write possible solutions you can think of. Afterwards choose the best of it and do it, like you
were doing it 100th time. Seems hard, doesn’t it? It just seems so, but it is really easy when you are sure of
what you are doing and have a will to do it. Yea, there are problems like: Friend turns into bastard,
relationship breaking, break up with GF/BF, and so on, which end quite badly. But that really doesn’t mean any
huge problem in a life. You walk outside everyday or sit at a computer, get to new places and such. Everywhere
you go you can meet a better friend than the one you lost, better GF/BF than the previous. Don’t give up in your
life, there will always be a thing to do, people to meet and to get known. Don’t say that something will never
happen. Life itself has so many surprises. It's truly on us how we accept the surprises life gives us.
Live in a 'section' of today's day, don’t fill your mind with bad past or bad future. Fill it with good you
did and can do, be happy of what you have and what you can gain, be optimistic and a great friend to the ones
you care about, because you really can, as it isn’t potential , that only some people can have. Changing
behaviour is really possible, not completely, but mostly. Trust me. I myself spent 3 years of hard work on my
behaviour and I don’t regret the time I used, nerves and embarrassing moments I spent and had, because now I
fulfilled my wish : I became a better friend than I was before.I am now more determined, hardly ever wanting to
give up. Of course I have some parts of my past behaviour in me still, but it hardly shows, your thoughts
change automatically with your new behaviour. Within us all, lays a secret deep in us, which is awesome to know,
as it is a divine thing, each and every one has in this whole world. Like for example me having two sides of myself.
Use your divine secret wisely and it can help your life. So don’t forget to live in the ‘section’ of today's day, as
for a clever person, each day, comes a new life. Don’t use your life's time on useless details,because :"God can
forgive us our sins, but our nerve system - never." Also:" The main thing in our lives isn’t to gain
maximum of success; even a big fool can do it. The really important thing is to be able to gain knowledge from
mistakes and bad things. This is the real difference between a clever man and a fool."
Thank you for reading,
Wolferion
I was sitting today quite bored 8 hours in school and came with an idea
of writing an advice from my gained experience for younger friends, to which it could be useful. I would like to ask your opinions of it, please ^^ I am sorry for bad tenses, I am not an expert in English still, will take time
There it is :
Maybe you have heard this sentence before:"For a clever person, each day comes a new life."
Some people might think this sentence means quite nothing. Let me explain it to you. Back in the times of
the everyday pain, full of soul cries caused by this ‘pain’, as many others did , I also thought of all the
bad things of it and about the bad future of our lives. All these thoughts put your hopes down, crushing your
beliefs, heart and mind...This is a really usual beginning of the ‘depression’. Realising that these thoughts
lead nowhere else than death, I started seeking a cure in my whole gained knowledge. I reminded myself of that
sentence and surprisingly I finally understood its meaning:"Don't look behind you or at a possible bad future.
Think of a current hour in a current day." I have lost dear people, because they turn into bastards, Unrequited
Love, an enormous pain. Now I just smile when I think about it with calm happy face. I made stupid mistakes,
so what about it? Regret it whole life? It’s past and it isnt real "world's end" in your mind. What has happened
has happened. There is no way to change it, so why give it so many nerves and bother? It is of course good to
remember good times (which to keep at heart) and the experience gained from mistakes. You think you can't forget
about the bad and to stop regretting it? Well, if you think so, then you surely won’t succeed, because you will
theoretically just remind yourself of what happened. "Life itself is exactly what we think about it". The sentence
over all is pretty understandable. You wake up in the morning of a new day, and there will come new situations,
a new experience. Just like a new life, which we can change to be better instead of keeping the thoughts of how it
can be bad. Only real fools think "everything I’ve done is lost"... "Accepting current situations is the first
step to dealing with problems. Don’t think your current situation is the worst possible, it could be far worse
than you really think. To deal with the problem properly, just sit down, take a paper, write the problem on it
and describe it, write possible solutions you can think of. Afterwards choose the best of it and do it, like you
were doing it 100th time. Seems hard, doesn’t it? It just seems so, but it is really easy when you are sure of
what you are doing and have a will to do it. Yea, there are problems like: Friend turns into bastard,
relationship breaking, break up with GF/BF, and so on, which end quite badly. But that really doesn’t mean any
huge problem in a life. You walk outside everyday or sit at a computer, get to new places and such. Everywhere
you go you can meet a better friend than the one you lost, better GF/BF than the previous. Don’t give up in your
life, there will always be a thing to do, people to meet and to get known. Don’t say that something will never
happen. Life itself has so many surprises. It's truly on us how we accept the surprises life gives us.
Live in a 'section' of today's day, don’t fill your mind with bad past or bad future. Fill it with good you
did and can do, be happy of what you have and what you can gain, be optimistic and a great friend to the ones
you care about, because you really can, as it isn’t potential , that only some people can have. Changing
behaviour is really possible, not completely, but mostly. Trust me. I myself spent 3 years of hard work on my
behaviour and I don’t regret the time I used, nerves and embarrassing moments I spent and had, because now I
fulfilled my wish : I became a better friend than I was before.I am now more determined, hardly ever wanting to
give up. Of course I have some parts of my past behaviour in me still, but it hardly shows, your thoughts
change automatically with your new behaviour. Within us all, lays a secret deep in us, which is awesome to know,
as it is a divine thing, each and every one has in this whole world. Like for example me having two sides of myself.
Use your divine secret wisely and it can help your life. So don’t forget to live in the ‘section’ of today's day, as
for a clever person, each day, comes a new life. Don’t use your life's time on useless details,because :"God can
forgive us our sins, but our nerve system - never." Also:" The main thing in our lives isn’t to gain
maximum of success; even a big fool can do it. The really important thing is to be able to gain knowledge from
mistakes and bad things. This is the real difference between a clever man and a fool."
Thank you for reading,
Wolferion
Last edited by Wolferion on Tue May 20, 2008 7:28 pm, edited 1 time in total.
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