To be completely honest and blunt, I think that it was your first impression.
The first time i saw you on the server, you seemed, uhh well rude is a bit harsh, but in that direction, maybe abrasive. Also the incident with del didn't leave your reputation unscathed either. Just my thoughts, since you wanted an honest answer.
Just get on the server more, and maybe be a bit more affable and that will help a lot imo, gl with it though