[Kirito]

Hey Rag.

I felt compelled to leave a comment a long with some advice. It's purely my opinion so I hope It doesn't rub you the wrong way.

But let's be honest here. We are a family here at KR are we not? Let's be straight and say that this family has many individuals from all over the world. We're all different.

I'm sure your family members in RL differ from each other as well. Is there not drama there? Families fight, it's the truth. The most important part of this to remember is.... they remain family. That can't be changed, period. We are a family here and you were accepted into this family by it's members. Not one or two individuals but the entire clan gets a say. Some of us are young, old, childish, wild, wise, and bold... etc etc. I could go on and on.

It saddens me to see people leave purely because of drama, or lives become to busy, or simply because issues between can't be resolved due to us being to embarrassed to face them head on. I say this because KR lives on regardless of this.

I got caught up in my life and dropped off the face of the world. BUT as soon as I got the chance and things mellowed out in my life. I came back here. Falcon didn't question my reasons or frown upon them. I was welcomed back and that very feeling of why I wanted to be apart of this came rushing back. But I didn't request to leave the clan... I never wanted to go inactive in the first place.

Jaw said you will always be welcome if you change your mind. That's something in my opinion, a family member in RL would say to someone that is in the same boat as you.

All in all... We don't want you to leave. We want you to persevere through hard times with us. If this is something you don't care for or feel like is important(i feel like you do or i wouldn't be writing this) then i wish you the best! But is this drama you speak of worth stepping away?

Just my opinion, I wish you the best. Remember, everyone makes mistakes. Families like KR forgive mistakes, I've seen it often. If you don't believe me reread Jawfins post!

Kirito

[R4gnar]

Kirito, I didn't leave only because of 1 drama or only because of dramas. I didn't expend too much on my reasons to leave, because this post is 100% public and a can be read by anyone and I have too much respect for KR to talk about intern things publicly. If some feel like they'd like to have further informations on my leaving, they can PM me or talk to me in-game.

Still, I thank you for your comment, it's very on topic and to be honest, you're totally right about the whole family thing. Maybe I've done a mistake by leaving KR, or maybe not.. I'll live it that way for now and see how things go. Right now, I'm still close to some members and I don't feel like I'm not part of the family anymore. The only things not wearing the tags brought to me is being out of the internal dramas..

[Kirito]

Fair enough my friend.

I hope you don't feel this post was made in anger. I would say this to anyone in your shoes that belongs to this family. It was simply me reaching out to you to let you know, We can work this out. I understand this is a buildup of feelings and emotion that you feel right now walking away from may be the best option. You gatta deal with things in your own way, I respect that.



We're here for you. I hope things are resolved quickly and the weight your currently carrying can be shared by those that care about you. Reach out if you need anything. I gotchu. I don't want you to feel that I was insinuating that you need to post the issues publicly. Just that I feel that you and those involved can work things out and come to understanding together. It's a two way street, I have no clue what happened to cause this, but those involved should set aside judgement, anger, disappointment, w/e it is and hash this out so you don't feel compelled to leave.

Many moons ago I was in a clan much like KR, I left for similar reasons. I regretted it, and eventually, I returned and was with them until the day they disbanded. Hence why I'm taking the time to write this to you.

Let's make this simple. Reflect on one fact. Think about KR, how would you feel personally if you didn't have the ability(starting now) to post, play JA, and interact with any of us ever again. That thought personally breaks my heart. If you don't feel that way after looking at it as critically as I have put it. Perhaps some time off from the guild will help you sort things out, even if it leads you down a separate path. If you do feel it the other way... well I think you know what needs to happen.

Reach out if you need anything.